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Timid, Shy Cat or Kitten
Dear Gwen,
I read your letter about the woman who got a 10 month old cat that wouldn't let her pet him.
Even though you were writing about cats, I'm keeping your article for reference because it
also applies to some men! Anyway, I'm going on vacation for two weeks and my cat has
never been out of my house except to go to the vet. He is very dependent on me and I'm
worried that he will be depressed and not eat when I am gone. When I leave, he sits by the
window and waits for me. When I come home he greets me at the door and follows me
everywhere. A neighbor is going to care for him while I'm gone. Is there anyway I can
assure myself that he will be OK when I'm gone?
Worried
Dear Worried,
The techniques I use in training can be applied to many different species of animals -
including man! As for your cat, begin as soon as possible to prepare him for your trip. Ask
your neighbor to come over as frequently as possible when you are there to spend time
with him. Let your cat see that you approve of her. Let her feed him, play with him and
escort him to his litter box. It is also a good idea for him to see the two of you coming
home together from the window. Maybe you can arrange to pick your neighbor up around
the corner before driving up to your house. When you cat looks out the window, he will
see both of you and begin to identify your neighbor as someone he looks forward to
seeing.
Then try letting your neighbor spend some time alone with your cat. See if she thinks he
feels comfortable and secure with her. Will he take treats from her? Will he cuddle or sit
on her lap when you are not there? If you have the right answers to these questions before
you leave, then I think you will be more assured when you are gone.
Dear Gwen,